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Pose 69. How to do it? Pros and Cons.

Pose 69. How to do it? Pros and Cons.


A mutual oral caress position 69 is very popular among thousands of couples. How to do it correctly? How to accommodate so that both were comfortable? Useful tips for translating positions and accessories that can make blowjob and cunnilingus much more enjoyable.

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How to pose 69


“Cross love”, “French love” - this is the name of the pose for simultaneous blowjob and cunnilingus. It is most often called “69”, since these figures reflect the position of partners.

The pose is performed in various ways. Some are simple and accessible to everyone, others are acrobatic:
  • The man from below. The classic position is when it is located on the back below, and it is on top. Her genitals are opposite the face of her partner, her head is opposite the penis. In this case, a girl can lie on a man or stand up, leaning on her hands. It is easy to move from a pose to faceting when a girl sits on her face, her body is vertical.
  • Woman from below. Inverted pose when the lady is on her back, and the man is on all fours above her. Blowjob in this position can be very deep, it is difficult for a lady to control penetration. A man's neck may sag.
  • On the side. Partners lie side by side. The contact of the bodies is not the maximum, but it’s easy to reach your partner with your hands. To make it more convenient, the girl has to lift one leg or set it back. With the right arrangement, it will turn out to make love for a long time, without feeling discomfort.
  • Aweigh. A man holds a partner in his hands. She seemed to hang on it, sticking only with her hands. It is realized standing on the floor or standing on your knees. Only suitable for very trained men and miniature women.
Try all the variations of the positions to find the most convenient. And do not forget about accessories that complement the process, making it easier to achieve orgasm.

Pose 69 for people with different stature

During posture 69, it is not so much growth that is important as the length of the body. And here people with different stature can suit each other or not. The length of the legs in the process is not taken into account at all.

What happens when partners are different? We will tell you by the example of a classic position when a man is from below.
  • If her body is shorter than his. A man has excellent access to the genitals, while a woman does not reach his penis or can only touch the head. In this case, deep penetration during blowjob will not work. And for maximum stimulation, she will have to use her hands. However, she loses support.
  • If her body is longer. Her head is below the penis, to take it into his mouth, you have to bend. Access to her is open to the perineum and scrotum, but not to the penis. Manual manipulations are very inconvenient for her.
Growth mismatch in this position can be a significant problem. Everything can be fixed by putting a pillow under the head of the partner below. But such a correction will help only with a small difference in growth.

Goodies 69

Pose 69 is different from other poses. She has a number of advantages over other options for erotic placement.
  • A beautiful view of the body of a partner. You can examine the human genitals in detail, examine each fold.
  • Excellent access to the most delicate places. It is convenient to caress all external genital organs, perineum and anus. There are no closed areas. But before touching the sites, it is important to understand whether the partner agrees. For example, it is not recommended to penetrate the anus without having permission to do so.
  • Mutual pleasure. Any movements cause pleasure. There is no need to wait in line; pleasure comes in the process.
There are many more pluses than minuses. Therefore, every sixth pair sometimes resorts to experiments in this position.
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Pros of 69 pose for a girl

For a woman, there are special advantages in a similar arrangement in sex.
  • Depth control. If it is on top, with the help of hands it can adjust the depth of entry of the penis into the mouth. In this case, the gag reflex is not manifested, the process is pleasant.
  • Lack of partner pressure. He does not lean on her with all the weight, she does not feel the weight of his body, which helps to relax.
For many girls, blowjob is a boring lesson from which she does not receive physical pleasure. But in 69 everything is different, her arousal does not subside, but often intensifies. Practitioners say that an orgasm in a woman in this position happens more often than in a man.

Cons of Poses 69

But mutual caresses have some drawbacks. It is because of them that couples refuse to practice such arrangements.
  • Inconvenience with different sizes. With different body lengths, a compromise cannot be found.
  • Difficulty focusing. When you do something and get excited at the same time, it is difficult to control movements. Everything turns out randomly and not rhythmically.
  • I want to forget about the partner. When a wave of pleasure rises, you don’t remember anything else, and this leads to stops. And this happens quite often.
  • Danger of injury. It is scary to grit your teeth or bite. In the process, you don’t understand how the partner feels, so you can accidentally hurt.
  • Simultaneous orgasms are rare. Units manage to adapt to a partner and jointly experience extravaganza. This pose is for alternate finals or to prepare for further action.
It is believed that experiencing an orgasm in position 69 is very difficult. That the caresses of another are very distracting. But this is a mistake, there are people who succeed, it is only important to adapt.

Useful tips for mutual oral caresses

In order for oral caresses to give only pleasant sensations during mutual execution, it is important to adhere to simple rules.

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  • Use a pillow. Put it under the head of the one below. This will remove unnecessary strain on the neck. With a side pose, you will need several pillows.
  • Do not forget about the lubricant. Lubrication improves glide, and saliva in the process may not be enough. At least once, perform a blowjob or cunnilingus with a lubricant, and it will become clear that there is more pleasure with such accessories.
  • Watch your body, avoid flowing. Hands and neck get tired in the process. Constantly tilt your head so that it does not hurt. And those who are on top should carry body weight to make their hands comfortable.
  • Control your mouth. Make sure that there are no bites or clamps. If you understand what has become difficult, step aside. For example, during orgasm, the jaw clenches. Do not allow this on the body of a partner.
  • Warn. This tip is more for men. It is necessary to warn the girl before ejaculating, so that she is ready for her. Unexpected release of sperm can lead to choking. It is important for a woman to talk about orgasm if she is prone to squirt. Any liquids can be dangerous when the partner is not ready.

Tips for comfortable performing a sexual pose are simple, but you should not forget about them in the process.


Useful posture accessories 69

Any posture will improve if you add the right accessories. This will bring diversity, which is important for couples living together for a long time. But it will also make the process much more comfortable.
  • Pillow for sex. A special inclined surface is much more convenient than the one on which a person sleeps. She has the correct shape, which allows her to fit without stress. The special surface is pleasant to the touch, while it is easy to clean. And the base does not slip, it is not necessary to correct it all the time.
  • Tasty grease. Oral sex is easy to turn into dessert by adding a lubricant. The taste of fruits is very pleasant, while it does not contain excess calories. And the fragrance fills the whole room, enhancing desire.
  • Mini vibrator. You can touch the genitals not only with your tongue or lips. It is pleasant to do this with vibrating objects. Such fluctuations will help bring your loved one to orgasm in a matter of minutes. These are helpers who should be in every bedroom. Ideal mini vibrators that do not take up much space.
  • Butt plug. It gives a feeling of fullness and expansion. She will perfectly adorn both the female and male bodies. After its placement, blowjob and cunnilingus are felt differently. And doubly interesting if the sleeve also vibrates.
An excellent experiment can be a pose with eyes closed. Using masks for two, you will be able to feel each other in a new way. At the same time, experiments may not be pleasant, but more often they open up new unexplored emotions.

How to improve blowjob in pose 69

In position 69, blowing is not difficult. The genitals of the partner are located conveniently, access to them is open. But there are a couple of things that will help make the process even better. This will enhance his sensations.
  • The right rhythm. In the process, it is difficult to adhere to it, as distractions are distracting. To prevent this from happening, start keeping an account for yourself. If you get lost, start over. Such a pronunciation will allow you to move at a constant pace, and this is especially true when it approaches the finale.
  • True bend. A lot depends on the position of the neck. It is important to ensure that there is no uncomfortable situation. If you can’t immerse the penis in your mouth, just lick it on top or play with the scrotum. Do not choose poses in which it is difficult to stay for more than a minute, this will not bring joy.
  • Depth control. To prevent it from entering too hard, grip the penis at the base. It looks like you are clenching a fist around a member. This technique is ideal for limiting.
  • Perineal stimulation. There are many nerve endings not only on the penis, but also in the area between the scrotum and anus. This isthmus is stroking hands or caressing the tongue in the process. Gentle pressure is acceptable, it stimulates the prostate.
How to do a blowjob? There are a lot of techniques, it’s worth mastering any or several at once. It is permissible to alternate movements. But in the process, it’s important to understand what he likes. And to do exactly what delights him.
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How to improve cunnilingus in pose 69

It will also strengthen her sensations in the “jack” position. Cunnilingus will be much nicer if you use the following tips:
  • Additional hand stimulation. The fingers can stroke the external genitalia and penetrate the vagina. Double stimulation often gives more pleasant sensations to a woman than the impact on a single point.
  • Deep vibration. A vibro egg is placed in the girl's vagina. It will vibrate, and the man will caress her external erogenous zones. Ideally, if the sex toy is controlled remotely, and the girl will have a remote control from it. Then she will be able to switch speeds and bring her own orgasm closer.
  • Petting the clitoris with a sex toy. Intimate items are also suitable for external areas. When the tongue is tired, it is worth replacing it with a stimulant. This thing works on battery or batteries, it can move without interruption for more than 30 minutes. The alternation of language and toys is very exciting and leads to fast orgasms. Any vibrator is suitable for such caresses, shape and size are not important.
  • Anilingus. Crotch and anus in girls are also sensitive. It is not necessary to try to enter the anus with the tongue, enough external touches. She might like it.

These simple methods are very effective. And do not forget about the lubricant, it was described above.


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