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What are male sexual fears?

What are male sexual fears?

We revealed and disclosed women's sexual fears in the last article, but now it's time to move on to men. What is the situation with sex, complexes and fear among the male part of the population, now we will find out. Immediately, some involuntarily may have a question: "Wait a minute, can men have any fears of sex?" Believe me, they can! And the number of male fears may well compete with female fears. 

The stereotypical image of a man as a polygamous male, craving sex every minute and thinking about wild intercourse before bed, during waking up and in the process of work - this is the main reason why such a question may arise.

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Such a picture, depicting a man as a creature eternally desiring sex, completely erases the boundaries of the fact that a man is, after all, a man. Person, who can experience a full range of feelings, including a sense of fear of sex. 

Moreover, everyone has their own special fear, which was formed for a number of many reasons: self-doubt, bad experience, complexes, various ailments, etc. And if a puzzle develops in your head that only women can wind themselves up with or without, be afraid and shy, and a man is a kind of mighty and iron knight in impenetrable armor who boldly goes to any business, even of a sexual nature, and is not afraid nothing that can expect him, then this puzzle should be immediately destroyed and sat down to folding a less stereotypical and hackneyed picture. 

The topic of sex for men is no less intimate and scrupulous than for women, and therefore any failures and awkward moments are sometimes taken very seriously and to heart. Hence, various fears arise, which only intensify and aggravate if you face them in real life again and again. So what, in fact, are men afraid of before sex? Let's open the curtain of the most common male sexual fears for you.

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MALE SEXUAL FEARS

1. What if it doesn't get up?The fear of not having an erection at the right time is one of the most common male fears. Almost every man has faced such a situation in his life, but for everyone it stuck in his memory in different ways. 

Someone instantly got upset, strained and grieved over the discouraged penis and happily forgot or did not attach particular importance to this awkwardness. Well, someone, faced with such a problem, began to incubate and cultivate this problem for days, weeks and months, delving into themselves and their thoughts, turning this, perhaps even a single case, into a real fear of each subsequent sexual intercourse. 

Adding fuel to the fire is the fact that in this case the accumulative system is actively working, because the fear of not having an erection increases and increases after each embarrassing moment associated with the fact that he simply did not get up. 

Having experienced one or several such unfortunate moments, a man subconsciously feels tense before the upcoming sex and asks the question: “What if he doesn't get up this time?”. 

Such thoughts only whip up, program you in absentia to fail and completely kill any desire to even try. Sometimes such fear can contribute to the delay in sexual intercourse, or it simply fills all the thoughts of a person and makes him as focused and loaded as possible, which does not allow him to properly relax and enjoy intimacy. 

But you need to remember that no one is immune from such situations and not always the lack of an erection is some kind of pathology or a cross on your sex life. It is not at all a fact that in the future this can be repeated at all. A member is not a snake that deftly crawls out to the sound of a flute, and a man is not a magician and not a spellcaster who, at the click or whiff of a flute, is able to awaken and inspire one or another part of the body. 

This is not how it works, alas. But the reasons why there is no erection or it is weakened may be just a lot, ranging from fatigue to a man's lifestyle. More details about why there is no erection and how to react to it, you can find out in the article"Treacherously did NOT get up . " How do you deal with your fear? First you need to understand which of the reasons is your option, and only after that start working on correcting the errors that led you to such a problem. 

To get rid of fear, it is necessary to remove all provoking factors and work on what is causing it. Well, in order not to start this process and not wait until such harmless awkwardness develops into real fear, one should not focus attention on such trifles, but live according to the principle “Well it was and it was”. As a matter of fact, with whom that does not happen. So you shouldn't program yourself to fail in advance, because we attract what we think about. 

2. It all ended before it began.We are talking about premature ejaculation or the fear of ending too quickly. Some men have such a feature of the body on an ongoing basis and they get an orgasm from time to time in a matter of minutes, or even seconds. 

Some people face this problem from time to time. It should be remembered that premature ejaculation can occur in absolutely everyone for a number of very different reasons. Nevertheless, some men develop a fear that it will be so every time. And such a feeling does not at all give self-confidence as a man, because in this case, the first does not mean the best. 

The fear of premature ejaculation entails not only complexes due to the fact that you cannot rightfully be considered a good lover and a hot male in bed, since you complete all intimate affairs almost after the very beginning, but also anxiety due to the fact that your partner was left unsatisfied. 

And these experiences can very much develop into the fear of losing your loved one, since willy-nilly there are thoughts that the partner can simply leave you and find a partner who will fully satisfy him in bed. The porn industry is catching up with even more complexes, having watched half an hour, or even one hour videos of which, you can generally drive yourself into a complete notorious ball of fear. But do not immediately attribute yourself to the number of losers and put an end to long-term sex and long-term pleasure. 

Even if it so happened that you finished earlier, and your partner still cannot boast of the same, then other types of caress can always come to the rescue. After all, not only a penis can bring to orgasm ... So you need to use all the benefits that nature has endowed a person with, for example, with hands or tongue, mouth. After all, in the modern world there are and are freely available a wide variety of sex toys, with which you can also bring your partner to orgasm. 

So you can finish what you started not only in the traditional way. In such cases, both partners will only benefit and will completely forget that a few moments ago there was a sudden and fairly rapid ejaculation. Is it important if both partners still have an orgasm? So we think not. with which you can also bring your partner to orgasm. 

So you can finish what you started not only in the traditional way. In such cases, both partners will only benefit and will completely forget that a few moments ago there was a sudden and fairly rapid ejaculation. Is it important if both partners still have an orgasm? So we think not. with which you can also bring your partner to orgasm. 

So you can finish what you started not only in the traditional way. In such cases, both partners will only benefit and will completely forget that a few moments ago there was a sudden and fairly rapid ejaculation. Is it important if both partners still have an orgasm? So we think not. 

It is impossible not to remember about special sex toys that delay the moment of ejaculation, so that you can properly enjoy sex yourself and satisfy your partner. If you have already encountered the problem of premature ejaculation, or simply do not want this to happen, then try erection rings. These are male sex toys in the form of rings, which are put on the base of the penis, squeeze the shaft and thereby prevent the outflow of blood. 

This effect not only makes the penis stronger and harder, but also allows you to make love much longer. But from the huge selection of cock rings, you will go completely crazy with joy. Here you have both ordinary and embossed, and even with a vibration stimulator for additional caresses of the partner's clitoris. Choose - I don't want to!

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3. Don't finish what you started.The opposite of the previous point is fear, which can also periodically appear in men. Sometimes you try your best and for a long time, but still nothing and nothing. 

Already and there is no strength, and sweat appears on the forehead, and there is not enough breath, and the enthusiasm has evaporated somewhere, but you still can't see an orgasm. And so you want ...

And here again we are talking about the fact that there can be many reasons for such a problem, ranging from self-doubt, stress and nerves, and ending with taking certain medications and health conditions. But this does not mean at all that such situations need to be turned into fear, because there is no likelihood that this will happen again. 

Maybe you are just overworked and you should go to sleep, gain strength and try with new passion, power and strength the next day. Who doesn't happen to? We are all humans, not robots. Therefore, don't be afraid of what may not happen at all. Better surrender to passion and enjoy the moment here and now.

4. Penis size.Well, where without measuring penises ... The eternal fear of many guys: “Isn't it too small?”, “What if her ex had more?”, “Or maybe it's still small?”. 

For the sake of fairness, we can assume that such fear works in the opposite direction, and some owners of large sizes ask the question: "Isn't it too big?" But you must admit that most often we meet in life the first option. Many men are still guided by some stereotypes about penis size, relying on what they see in porn films or heard from the lips of celebrities, idols, or the same porn stars. 

Some of the men, willy-nilly, hammered into their heads the information about the notorious 15 centimeters, and the rest simply dream of a couple of extra centimeters, which, according to them, could play a huge role. But is it worth worrying about the size of the penis enough to drive yourself into complexes and feel fear before each sexual intercourse? 

Of course not! After all, it has long been proven that size really does not matter. And this is not only a comforting turn of speech, which they are used to cheer men with, but also an absolute truth. Well, if you still do not believe that size is far from the main thing, then we suggest you read the article"Size is my friend, but technology is more expensive . "

But if it so happened that you are afraid that your penis is not big enough, then special sex toys can always come to the rescue. A sex shop in the modern world offers an incredible selection of intimate products that can relieve men of complexes and fears. 

Missing a couple of centimeters in length or diameter? At your service are extensions for the penis, which will give you not only a few extra centimeters, but also delight your partner with new, vivid sensations during sex. Do you want everything to be as comfortable and fixed as possible? Then you can use not attachments, but hollow strap-ons, which are comfortably and firmly fixed using a special mount or panties. 

Do you dream of seeing your penis in new sizes? This miracle can be arranged by vacuum pumps and hydraulic pumps, which are able to temporarily enlarge the penis and bring it into a state of strong and persistent erection. By the way, if you use the pump regularly, you can observe an increase in the penis on an ongoing basis. 

So, do not be afraid that you have one or another size of the penis, because it does not matter at all! In any case, additional intimate gadgets can always turn complexes and self-doubt into new opportunities and sexual experiments. 

5. Fear of not satisfying a woman.This fear is a combination of all the previous points, because each of them can lead to one common result - the dissatisfaction of your partner. The fear of not giving the partner pleasure can overtake both insecure, timid men, and the most sultry and experienced lovers. 

Such an outcome of events can specifically hit a man's self-esteem, because who will be pleased to realize that his partner does not receive proper pleasure or orgasm during sex with him? And this fear is well founded. Unpleasant, at least. And you shouldn't immediately, at the first failure, shout into the shout that the woman is frigid and it's not about me. You just have to remember that each person's body, reproductive system, sensitivity and perception are individual and require a certain approach. 

Afraid of not satisfying a woman? Ask right away about her sex preferences, favorite positions and positions, techniques in which she orgasms. Experiment and try all possible options, take an interest in the feelings and feelings of your partner and, most importantly, feel each other. Then you can not only diversify your sex life, but also give pleasure not only to yourself, but also to your partner. 

You need to be more confident in your abilities and in no case dwell on the fear that something might go wrong. Just surrender to the feeling, unite with your partner in a passionate symbiosis and enjoy the process. Then you can not only diversify your sex life, but also give pleasure not only to yourself, but also to your partner. 

You need to be more confident in your abilities and in no case dwell on the fear that something might go wrong. Just surrender to the feeling, unite with your partner in a passionate symbiosis and enjoy the process. Then you can not only diversify your sex life, but also give pleasure not only to yourself, but also to your partner. 

You need to be more confident in your abilities and in no case dwell on the fear that something might go wrong. Just surrender to the feeling, unite with your partner in a passionate symbiosis and enjoy the process. 

SEX WAS NOT MADE FOR FEAR

Sex is given to people not only for procreation, but also for relaxation, emotional relief and pleasure. He brings us pleasure and makes the world around us more colorful and brighter. And therefore, along with pleasure and enjoyment, fears simply cannot stand, which are the complete opposition to these categories of happiness. 

Yes, fears exist and they are all around us. Each person has his own fear, which lasts with him through life or is lost over the years. But you should not create and invent fears even in the field of sex, in which you can know true pleasure and pleasure. 

Cast aside all prejudices, fight with complexes and get rid of sexual fears, because sex is given to us for pleasure, and pleasure and fear are concepts from completely different categories.

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